Embracing the Milestone: Turning 30 with Optimism and Purpose
- Bridie
- Nov 17, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Dec 4, 2023
Entering a new decade of life often comes with a mixture of emotions—excitement, reflection, and perhaps a touch of apprehension. For many, the milestone of turning 30 marks a significant point where the responsibilities of adulthood are firmly established, yet the possibilities of life remain vast and ripe with potential.
Today I turn 30, and I have to admit the lead up has been filled more with apprehension than more positive emotions. However, the more I’ve thought about it and where I am currently at in my life the more I have thought I should be embracing it. The past few months I have set out on a journey of recovery and transformation, so heading into a new decade almost seems fitting. Rather than viewing it as a daunting milestone, let’s explore the myriad reasons why turning 30 is a cause for celebration and empowerment.
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Wisdom and Experience
By the time we reach 30, we’ve accumulated a wealth of experiences—both successes and failures—that have shaped our perspectives and forged our character. Each lesson learned, every obstacle overcome, contributes to our growth and understanding of the world. This accumulated wisdom becomes a powerful tool, guiding us through life’s twists and turns with a newfound sense of clarity and resilience.
I know I have learnt a hell of a lot through my 20s. How to be a wife, a mother, and more myself. I have educated myself, chosen a career path (not concrete but I have a pretty good idea of where I am heading) and taught myself how to run a home. I have also learnt, sometimes painfully, who I want in my life and who I want to be to others.
Self-Discovery and Confidence
The 20s are often characterized by self-discovery, experimentation, and figuring out who we truly are. As we approach 30, this journey of self-exploration tends to solidify. We become more comfortable in our skin, more aware of our strengths and weaknesses, and consequently, more confident in our abilities to navigate life’s complexities.
Clarified Priorities
With the passing of time, our priorities tend to crystallize. By the age of 30, many of us have a clearer vision of what we want in life—be it in relationships, careers, personal growth, or health. This clarity allows us to focus our energy on pursuits that align with our values and aspirations, fostering a sense of purpose and fulfilment.
Stronger Relationships
As we mature, so do our relationships. By the time we hit 30, we’ve likely forged meaningful connections, built lasting friendships, and perhaps found a deeper understanding of what we seek in romantic partnerships. These relationships, based on shared experiences and mutual growth, become a source of support and joy as we journey through life.
I will be forever grateful that I met my husband young and we are happy to this day. I have two beautiful children. And I have the kind of friends that I hope will be with me through this next decade and beyond. We have all matured and learnt together, and will continue to do so.
Embracing Change and Adaptability
Turning 30 teaches us the importance of adaptability. Life is ever-evolving, and the ability to embrace change becomes a valuable skill. Whether it’s switching careers, moving to a new city, or facing unexpected challenges, our experiences have taught us that resilience and adaptability are essential in navigating life’s unpredictable terrain.
Pursuit of Personal Growth
At 30, the pursuit of personal growth takes on a new dimension. We’ve established a foundation, and now, armed with experience and self-awareness, we can actively work towards becoming the best versions of ourselves. Whether it’s through continued education, honing new skills, or exploring passions, this decade offers a platform for substantial personal development.
Personally for me this looks like going back into therapy and continuing my education. It has meant a shift in priorities and change of direction, but I am embracing every second of it with the firm belief that it is what I should be doing.
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Embrace the Journey
Turning 30 marks the intersection of youthful exuberance and the wisdom garnered from life’s experiences. It’s a celebration of growth, resilience, and the endless possibilities that lie ahead. Instead of viewing it as a milestone that signals the end of youth, consider it as the beginning of a new chapter—one filled with self-assurance, purpose, and the excitement of what’s yet to come.
So, here’s to turning 30—an age that signifies not just the passing of time, but the accumulation of valuable lessons and the promise of a future brimming with potential.
Embrace it with open arms, for the best is yet to come.
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